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Sophie S.'s avatar

That is a very cool new term, caspering, I will remember that and adopt it ๐Ÿ™‚

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

Hobbit helped me make it up. I think it should become mainstream.

Sophie S.'s avatar

It really should!

Ben The Breakup Therapist's avatar

Just posted an article on this same topic, well said! Iโ€™m a therapist new on Substack and Iโ€™d love to read each otherโ€™s work!

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

Welcome to Substack Ben! I think you'll love it here. Thanks for reading and commenting. I'll go check out your article now.

Have you found my Creator Retreat publication yet? It's a great slow-growth integrity/intimacy/identity/community approach to building your substack audience without getting caught up in hustle culture or growth hacker schemes. It's made for us quiet sensitive types.

https://thecreatorretreat.substack.com/

Mary's avatar

I enjoyed reading your writings. And though I'm surrounded constantly with a lively, creative village, it's great to wander into someone else's calmer view of life. Thank you.

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

Mary, thank you for noticing and acknowledging that I do have a calmer view of life. It took me a couple decades to really embrace the calm, and now that it's here, I really celebrate it. My creative village keeps getting more lively, and calm, all at the same time.

Journal Notes from Jamaica ๐Ÿ–‹๏ธ's avatar

Your words here resonate, Teri Leigh. Living and creating in the Jamaican countryside with no in-person community at all sometimes feels like heaven on earth and other times isolating in a poopy way. ๐Ÿ™„I consciously decided to share more of my artwork in this space in 2026 for exactly what you are writing about here. Thank you for Caspar-ing me with your magical support as you do ๐Ÿซ‚โœจ

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

I absolutely adore your little likkle images dear friend. Keep em coming!

The Girl Who Got Away's avatar

Eeeeh I loved reading this, I too had a very quiet Christmas period and leant heavily into everything and anything creative!

Also, I would so love to see the pictures of these animas you painted in corners, that is so adorable ๐Ÿฅน

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

I haven't yet painted the animals in the corners. still working on becoming a painter. but if I find the artist that inspired me again, I'll add a link here to show you what she does. it's adorbs!

Laura Witherspoon's avatar

Love this! My sonโ€™s name is Casper so this made me smile. ๐Ÿ˜€

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

I love the name Casper. The hard C at the front of the name is like a sacred container, holding open an special space for all the softness of the letters s, p, and r that follow. Itโ€™s just a gentle sound.

Laura Witherspoon's avatar

Thatโ€™s amazing! Thank you for sharing that!

Laura Witherspoon's avatar

Itโ€™s funny because we chose the name so because it was unique and we liked it. Of course everyone thought we did it because of the movie. My cousin ended up doing a very extensive family tree and I decided to check one day and it is actually the name of one of my grandfathers (probably ~20 generations back). So we can now confidently say itโ€™s a family name. ๐Ÿ˜†

Teri Leigh ๐Ÿ’œ's avatar

and thatโ€™s exactly how someone with the name Casper would work! That ancestor whispered that name into your skull in such a way you didnโ€™t even know how influential it was! I love this!