Iâve been collecting, reading, and analyzing the applications for Abundant Money Mindset Program over the last three weeks. While Iâm not usually one for listicle posts, this was too obvious for meâŚas these 7 money patterns screamed so loud from all the applicants.
Of course, my brain thinks in the patterns of the seven chakras, and these seven money patterns go right in line with our core nervous system responses that live in the chakra energies of the human body.
I am not promising to fix anything or solve any problems at root level with this program, but I do promise that we will all remain curious and open to some pretty phenomenal and unexpected results as that is always what happens when sensitive souls join together in community to work through vulnerabilities together.
The Application window closes TODAY at midnight (central USA timezone). If youâve been thinking about this on any level, I encourage you to apply and keep your options and perspective open. What Iâve learned about this work is that the magick starts happening as soon as you commit.
1. The Worthiness Wound: âIâm Too Much or Not Enoughâ ( Core Chakra)
The Pattern: Deep-seated belief that they donât deserve financial abundance or success. Oscillates between feeling entitled and feeling unworthy.
What They Say:
âDonât feel worthy, I have scripts that are playing in my head and heartâ
âI think deep down I donât think Iâm worthy of charging a lot for my expertiseâ
âam scared to thriveâ
How It Shows Up: Chronic undercharging, imposter syndrome around money, sabotaging success when it arrives, giving away services for free.
2. Safety = Scarcity Programming: âAbundance is Dangerousâ (Root Chakra)
The Pattern: Unconscious belief that having money means losing love, safety, or spiritual connection. Money = danger at a nervous system level.
What They Say:
âReal abundance has always had a very high price tag. To gain money I had to lose loved onesâ
âI know itâs related to me feeling fundamentally safe...but I also know itâs deeper than thatâ
âI need to prepare for the worstâ
How It Shows Up: Feast/famine cycles, anxiety when money flows in, unconscious sabotage of financial success, hoarding vs. spending extremes.
3. The Helperâs Dilemma: âGood People Donât Profit from Helpingâ (Heart Chakra)
The Pattern: Belief that charging fairly for healing, creative, or helping work is somehow unethical or ânot spiritual.â
What They Say:
âFeel like Iâve capped out in my profession/shouldnât make a lot off of helping othersâ
âI seem to attract people with no moneyâ
âAm worried about the judgment if I choose a less ambitious pathâ
How It Shows Up: Chronic undercharging for services, attracting clients who canât/wonât pay, guilt around making money from meaningful work.
4. Analysis Paralysis & Financial Overwhelm: âItâs Too Complicatedâ (Third Eye Chakra)
The Pattern: Using complexity and confusion as an excuse to avoid taking action. Perfectionism preventing progress.
What They Say:
âI havenât learned how to manage it, set goals around it, and treat it with the respect it deservesâ
âI procrastinate as I am feeling overwhelmed by everything (not just financial)â
âI canât live with it, and I canât live without it. I donât know where it ACTUALLY fitsâ
How It Shows Up: Avoiding financial planning, procrastinating on money tasks, getting stuck in research without implementation.
5. Past Trauma Self-Talk Creating Present Blocks: âIâve Already Failedâ (Throat Chakra)
The Pattern: Previous financial mistakes or traumas create a story that theyâre âbad with moneyâ and itâs too late to change.
What They Say:
âthink itâs too late for me to actually figure it out. Iâve fucked it up for so longâ
âSabotage my creativity with âI am not good enough. I canât do it.ââ
âIâm afraid to take actions that could change my life. This fear is realâ
How It Shows Up: Giving up before starting, negative self-talk, using past mistakes as evidence they canât succeed with money.
6. Inherited Family/Cultural Money: âItâs Complicatedâ (Crown Chakra)
The Pattern: Simultaneous craving and rejection of money. Wanting financial security while being suspicious of money itself.
What They Say:
âOur relationship is complicated. Itâs a push-pull. One moment I feel abundant...At other moments, I have experienced absolute doom and terrorâ
âForbidden flirtation, lack of trust, anxiety riddenâ
âI donât trust you. I know you can be feeble, and I also know I need youâ
How It Shows Up: Erratic money behavior, cycles of earning and losing, emotional spending followed by restriction.
7. Money Shame: âMoney is the Root of All Evilâ (Sacral Chakra)
The Pattern: Carrying ancestral and family programming about money being bad, dangerous, or corrupting. Unable to separate from family money stories.
What They Say:
âother peopleâs relationships with money impact me as well. Mostly my parents and husband who all have issues with scarcity mindsetâ
âWhen I feel good, they reinforce the scary messages about moneyâ
âDonât feel worthy, I have scripts that are playing in my head and heartâ
How It Shows Up: Guilt around having more than family members, repeating generational money patterns, feeling like success betrays family values.
What To Do About This:
Address the Nervous System
These patterns live in the body, not the brain. Start with somatic practices, breathwork, and nervous system regulation before diving into budgets and investment strategies. You canât think your way out of ancestral trauma.
Create Safety Through Community
Shame thrives in isolation but heals in witnessed connection. Group work with other sensitive souls normalizes these struggles and breaks the isolation that keeps patterns stuck.
Combine Inner Work with Practical Action
Information alone wonât heal worthiness wounds, but healing work alone wonât teach investment strategies. The magic happens when you address both the emotional patterns AND build real financial skills simultaneously.
Work with Ancestral and Family Patterns
These issues are inherited programming. Use family constellation work, ancestral healing practices, and conscious examination of money stories passed down through generations.
Start with Micro-Doses of Change
Donât try to overhaul everything at once. Small, consistent actions that feel safe to the nervous system create sustainable transformation. $5 automatic investments matter more than perfect budgets never implemented.
Reframe Money as Spiritual Practice
For sensitive souls, money work IS spiritual work. Position financial healing as part of their soulâs evolution, not separate from it. This removes the false choice between money and meaning.
This is precisely what we will be doing together in the Abundant Money Mindset Program October 21 - December 9.
We have no idea what results you will experience, but we are really curious to find that out together!
Can definitely relate to the helpers dilemma and to be fair that's ingrained in society as well where helping professions usually are the lower earning ones. I'm in a type of profession that will never earn me a lot of money but is such hard work and definitely burns me out at times. I could make three times as much in a different organisation but I believe in what I do, so sacrifice the money. Society really should be paying more to helping professions.
I have many times encountered this approach to solving the "money problem" - trying to reprogram oneself, to work oneself spiritually out of the "scarcitiy mindset". While I DO think, that it has some truths in it, my problem with this approach is only that I truly DO THINK that capitalism is the problem of our time. I truly don't want to engage in it (or just as little as possible) and I have the feeling that the more I try to (spiritually) convince myself that it is ok to participate, the more I deviate from my values.
Why have I always, since I was still very young, admired people who have managed to free themselves from the need of earning money or dealing with money? Some names: Rob Greenfield - USA, Mark Boyle - UK
But what if those inner feelings, that subliminal suspicion that there is something wrong with charging money for certain things (the commodification of everything), are not only right, but point to a much bigger truth: our whole system, which is based on capitalist thinking, is imoral because it is based on extraction and on profit - one's loss is the other's gain. (For some to be rich, there have to be others who are poor.)
What if there is actually no flaw in our inner compass? What if what we think is "healing" is actually an attempt to override the signals of that inner compass?